Creative Places To Meet Women

Single women are everywhere. From the grocery store, to the mall, the coffee joint you go to every morning, or the gym. Just walking down the street, or running your dog in the park, you never know where you might find the next girl you want to hit on. Based on things you like to do and your interests, here are some places you might go to find one:

Cooking Classes
It can be any class for that matter but cooking class is a good one. You will probably be one of the only guys there. You’re a guy so you should love to eat. It’s much cheaper if you can cook something for yourself that tastes good, versus not being able to cook and eating out all the time. Save your money for all the dates you will be going on. It is a huge plus if you can cook something for a woman. Plus single women are here. I know we mentioned this earlier as a potential place to go on a first date. What can we say, we're fans of these places.

Art Galleries and Museums

I really don't have much interest for these types of places but there are single women here. If this is your type of thing you can go by yourself and have a good time. Single women do the same thing. There will be no pressure on you, and you already have a conversation starter because you can talk about the art or shit in the museum. Art is all subjective anyway so no matter your opinion on a piece it won't hurt to say what you think something re, but if you don't know anything about a piece

City Parks
If you have a dog you should walk it at the park or popular social venue every minute you are not out with a girl. When you’re at the park what do you see? I see a cute girl reading a book, a girl with big boobs jogging by, two cute girls walking a dog, an ugly girl running by. It is the Christmas tree farm of women. They are not all good looking and some are taken, but eventually I will find one. As long as your dog is generally well behaved women will love nothing more than to come up and pet him/her. The majority of the time you won't be the one striking up the conversation, she will approach you and initate contact on her own. If you don't have a dog then try to borrow a friend's dog for the day, just to see the reaction you get when walking them out in public.

Brunch on Sunday Mornings
If you are a bit older, or don't mind divorced women, this is perfect for you. Older (late 20's to 40's) divorced women, or friends of, meet for brunch on the weekends. These groups can be tough to open, but if you can get through their outward bitter facade, you are in. Or if you wait for them to finish that third mimosa, they tend to be a lot more friendly. You can also run into large families coming from church that just happen to have a very attractive twenty something member of the family. Even though she just came from church, looks can be deceiving and she could be fantasizing of a rendezvous in the bathroom with you. Go to a place like this and try your luck.

Singles Group
Join a singles group. Usually older people join singles groups for a variety of reasons. Most are divorcees or people who were never very good at interacting with the opposite sex. If you are older this could be perfect for you. If you are having trouble doing the things we talk about in this book, try it out. It will be a non threatening way for you to have an interaction and work on building sexual chemistry. It may be just what you need to get to the next step and be comfortable approaching women at the bar. Even if you are a master of pick up, you might want to try it just because it will be a target rich environment. There are cute younger girls that join these things. Some join with their parents to help them ease back into the dating pool, some join because they are tired of meeting dick heads at the bar, and some join just because they actually go on some pretty cool outings. Singles groups go rafting, camping, all kinds of good shit. Don't tell me it wouldn't be cool to shack up with someone out in the woods on a singles rafting excursion.

Speed Dating
Speed Dating is pretty popular these days, but when Taylor and I first wrote this book, Speed Dating was a fairly new concept. These are a great low risk approach to meet multiple women. You don't have to worry about approaching as everyone switches dates and moves quickly to the next. A speed date forces you to get out of the standard twenty questions routine, what's your name, what do you do, etc. To make the best impression you will need to stand out by going off the script and speed dating gives you a forum to try out many different converstaional openings without coming off like a jerk. If you do say something dumb, so what, another girl will be coming to your table in thirty seconds or less. Taylor and I have even went to these events with the expectation of participating only to meet a group of girls at the same location. Either they just happen to be there and this event was going on, or they would also be participating. We hit it off so well that as a group we ditched the speed date and turned it into an improtu group date. We've also had it where we connect with girls really well during the speed date that we end up continuing things immediately afterwards. Give it a shot.

Online
Social media is everywhere these days. Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, Twitter, Tinder, Match. Create a social presence and don't be afraid to send a message online to a girl if you think she's cute. We have some guidelines we like to keep with when hitting on women online that you can read about in our Online Dating and Texting sections. With the exception of dating sites, where the intention of being on that site is to meet or hooking up with new people (Tinder, Match), only message girls that you have been introduced to before and have mutual friends with. Don't be that creeper shotgun blasting every girl with a cute pic on Facebook.